The Teachings for a Woman
Author:
Bhagat RamDitta Ji Giani
Wake up
in the morning and take a bath, and recite the name of God with love, Bibi.
Lower
your gaze, speak sweetly, and remain humble, Bibi.
Always
remain joyful, and may your forehead bloom like a flower, never be angry, Bibi.
Patience,
Righteousness, Contentment, Truth and Peace, understand this as the path to
success, Bibi.
Serve
your in-laws family and you shall receive honour in this world, Bibi.
Adorn
yourself with virtues and make forgiveness your ornaments, see your husband as
the form of God, Bibi.
Obey your
father and mother-in-law, leave your ego and pride aside, Bibi.
See your
mother-in-law as your own mother and your husband’s older brother’s wife as
your mother-in-law, Bibi.
See your
brother-in-law as your own brother, and your husband’s sister as your own
sister, your father-in-law and your husband’s elder brother as your own father,
Bibi.
Do not
gossip about your in-laws to your own family, remain humble and patient, Bibi.
Do not
speak about family matters to outsiders; do accept my plea, Bibi.
Do not
gossip about your husband to your friends; do not tarnish his reputation, Bibi.
If there
is any fault in your husband, advise him properly like a good scholar, Bibi.
Deal with
your husband’s stubbornness with humility; turn your home into heaven, Bibi.
Whatever
you receive based on your pralabdh karam (portion of the past karma, which is responsible for the
present body), accept and live within it, Bibi.
First, the
pralabdh karam of the person is accounted for, and then human takes birth into
this world, Bibi.
If you
wish to increase your intellect, wake up in the morning and take a bath, Bibi.
If we do
any work in haste, then damage will surely happen, Bibi.
Do not
return to the house of those friends, who do not give any form of respect,
Bibi.
One who wears
the attire of the native land (proper attire), that woman is intellectual,
Bibi.
Parents
who do good deeds, their child will be a fortunate one, Bibi.
Be
kind-hearted and soft natured, donate to any poor who comes to your home, Bibi.
Do not
reveal secrets of one person to another, it will cause a lot of damage, Bibi.
Do not
gossip or be jealous of anyone, this will be detrimental to your dharam, Bibi.
Sleep and
eat little, always speak sweetly, Bibi.
Keep good
relations with your neighbors, it is not good to hurt people, Bibi.
See
Gobind (Vaheguru) in everyone; understand this as Brahm Giaan, Bibi.
Practice
this verse in your life; you shall receive honor in this world and hereafter,
Bibi.
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