The Power To Build Or Break A Family And Panth Is In The Hands Of A Woman

The Teachings for a Woman

Author: Bhagat RamDitta Ji Giani

Wake up in the morning and take a bath, and recite the name of God with love, Bibi.

Lower your gaze, speak sweetly, and remain humble, Bibi.

Always remain joyful, and may your forehead bloom like a flower, never be angry, Bibi.

Patience, Righteousness, Contentment, Truth and Peace, understand this as the path to success, Bibi.

Serve your in-laws family and you shall receive honour in this world, Bibi.

Adorn yourself with virtues and make forgiveness your ornaments, see your husband as the form of God, Bibi.

Obey your father and mother-in-law, leave your ego and pride aside, Bibi.

See your mother-in-law as your own mother and your husband’s older brother’s wife as your mother-in-law, Bibi.

See your brother-in-law as your own brother, and your husband’s sister as your own sister, your father-in-law and your husband’s elder brother as your own father, Bibi.

Do not gossip about your in-laws to your own family, remain humble and patient, Bibi.

Do not speak about family matters to outsiders; do accept my plea, Bibi.

Do not gossip about your husband to your friends; do not tarnish his reputation, Bibi.

If there is any fault in your husband, advise him properly like a good scholar, Bibi.

Deal with your husband’s stubbornness with humility; turn your home into heaven, Bibi.

Whatever you receive based on your pralabdh karam (portion of the past karma, which is responsible for the present body), accept and live within it, Bibi.

First, the pralabdh karam of the person is accounted for, and then human takes birth into this world, Bibi.

If you wish to increase your intellect, wake up in the morning and take a bath, Bibi.

If we do any work in haste, then damage will surely happen, Bibi.

Do not return to the house of those friends, who do not give any form of respect, Bibi.

One who wears the attire of the native land (proper attire), that woman is intellectual, Bibi.

Parents who do good deeds, their child will be a fortunate one, Bibi.

Be kind-hearted and soft natured, donate to any poor who comes to your home, Bibi.

Do not reveal secrets of one person to another, it will cause a lot of damage, Bibi.

Do not gossip or be jealous of anyone, this will be detrimental to your dharam, Bibi.

Sleep and eat little, always speak sweetly, Bibi.

Keep good relations with your neighbors, it is not good to hurt people, Bibi.

See Gobind (Vaheguru) in everyone; understand this as Brahm Giaan, Bibi.

Practice this verse in your life; you shall receive honor in this world and hereafter, Bibi.

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